Are your children opposing your requests more continually than usual? Does it seem like a constant struggle? Unbelievable as it may seem, positive parenting basics may be the secret to getting your kids to cooperate more. Mixing it into your way of life might not be as difficult as you think.
Here are a few effective parenting strategies or basics you should be aware of:-
- Keep a Regular, Healthy Schedule
Cooperation can be challenging, but a reliable schedule can prevent behavioral issues from occurring in the first place. It invests in children a sense of stability and security.
Children who have routines will know exactly what is expected of them each day. An effective routine will invest confidence and independence in your child as they grow. They'll be less aggressive since they'll be proud that they can look after themselves.
- Provide options when you can
Telling your child they have to buy a winter coat can set you up for an argument. They can start complaining or informing you that nobody wears them and that they aren't cold. However, they'll feel more in control if you let them choose a new winter coat.
- Payback carefully
Your child's age will determine the kind of behavior you reward. Younger kids might be rewarded for figuring out how to dress themselves or tie their shoes without help. Children's motivation, productivity, and confidence can all be increased with rewards. When used properly, positive support will show your youngster that effort must come before reward. They discover that rewarding one takes work.
- Avoid Shame
It can be tempting to yell at your kids when they are being very unmanageable. Your long-term relationship may suffer as a result of your low self-esteem and the distance that hurtful comments can create.
Consider talking to your child about their behavior rather than punishing them personally. They will be more forthcoming about how they can improve if you ask open-ended questions. They might even be more willing to apologize in the future.
- Avoid shouting
Kids appear to respond naturally to being yelled at, especially when they're being angry. However, shouting makes the situation worse. Screaming can occasionally frighten kids and make them feel uneasy.
Take a big breath and, if necessary, leave the room for a moment the next time you feel like screaming. Resolve the issue by imposing the proper penalties without endangering your child.
- Be specific and dependable
Being consistent with your corrections will help you prevent disputes that turn personal. When rules and expectations are set up front, it is simpler to enforce them when your child chooses not to listen. You can gently tell your child that it is expected that they get ready for school on time and that if they don't, breakfast will be left on the table, and/or lunch won't be prepared. Only if you uphold your clear and consistent expectations will you experience the consequences.
