Attract men. Some women have no trouble in attracting them whereas others do. Some attract the wrong type, undesirable unworthy ones that they would prefer were not interested in them instead of nice genuine ones. How do you get the right type of man to be interested without getting the wrong type too? Let an agony aunt email and tell you.
Believe it or not you have to make sure you know exactly what sort of men you want to interest rather than simply trying to be attractive. If you want to get players and cheats after you then wearing short tight skirts, low tops that push your breasts out, dirty or sexy chat, will do the trick.
Cheats and players love the idea of finding women who are sleazy, sex starved and easy, so appear or act easy and you have them. If your idea of a man worth having is a caring, faithful, serious type then the short skirts, tight tops and dirty talk would put them off. To be able to attract someone you have to know what it is that would attract that specific person. A lot of them assume that a wife is eager to jump into bed with any man who asks them – their fantasy is that this woman is bored with hubby or hubby is bored with her so she has to say yes.
There is such a lot of emphasis put on looks and we are bombarded with advertisements telling us how to look more sexy, glamorous or young, but the truly decent and caring man does not expect us to look sexy, glamorous and young and would prefer a woman who looks intelligent, serious and interesting as well as pretty. Some women can attract any man by being good looking. Any guy who decides who to date based solely on her looks and whether or not she dresses sexily is probably only interested in sex, so why bother with him? Some men go online onto free dating sites demanding the women must be beautiful.
When you are trying to find guys to email and maybe meet from online then use this as a guide. If the guy goes on about photos, looks, measurements, size, he is shallow or only thinking about sex. A truly intelligent and decent man would realise that your hobbies, job, lifestyle, background, education, family are as important as your looks if not more so. Likewise it should be important to you that the guy has more than youth or looks to offer otherwise he might turn out to be the most boring, stupid or nasty partner you have ever had. Any good agony aunt or uncle will tell you that!
I once had a client who only dated very good looking guys. Yet because that was her rule she always ended up with nasty guys who lied to her or cheated on her or beat her up. She went online and would send an email to a stranger and then meet him just like that. She never learnt a thing from this and would keep going back to these handsome but nasty characters. Looks alone do not last and even if you only want a casual or short term relationship they are very limited in what they achieve. Some good looking people are so full of themselves, spending all of their time preening themselves in front of mirrors and all of their energy and money on buying clothes and beauty treatments, is that such a good thing? If you are special and intelligent then for or a long term relationship you need someone who has something between their ears and who wants you for more than sex or as an ornament, someone who has as much to offer as you. If you need support and guidance hire someone who is well versed in all this, perhaps you should write online agony aunt letters to people advertising online? Or arrange for a cheap email reading from a psychic.
Make a list of the things you seek in a guy. Start with the most important things first and put those at the top. Give that marks out of ten for how important it is to you. Gradually make your list longer and longer until eventually it is finished and the last item on the list is worth the least. Maybe just a one. Then tnink of how you can get such a person. If the most important things to you are that the guy is a lot of fun and exciting then go to places that are adventurous. You might join a bungee jumping club, go walking up hills, go ballooning, skating, clay pigeon shooting or horse riding but there is no way you find an exciting man sitting in a library reading books all day.
