Disclaimer: This is a user generated content submitted by a member of the WriteUpCafe Community. The views and writings here reflect that of the author and not of WriteUpCafe. If you have any complaints regarding this post kindly report it to us.

Diagnosing is very difficult, although it is not a concern for STDs. Yes, we have all been taught the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases in health classes from the eighth grade, but how many of us are genuinely faithful at that time? (I'm not sure I knew what sex was at that time if we were honest.) Well, like me, you just said that people with STDs are just adulterers, not knowing, unconcerned, or with drugs. Experts did not get STDs. People who went to college and paid off their debts on time and took care of themselves did not get STDs. Son, I was wrong.

It is one of the most common plague cases globally, with more than 20 million new cases occurring each year. You may have heard of the common STDs of chlamydia, genital herpes, gonorrhea, and HIV / AIDS, to name just a few. The prevalence of STDs ranges from those treated with simple over-the-counter medications, including those that are incurable and life-long symptoms, to those that cannot be treated and die. Yes, death. So they are not a joke, and you have to be very careful and take care of yourself if you want to survive.

In the future to April, the year I turn 26. I graduated from college, got a middle-class job, followed up with my apartment as if I were living together. . Only one thing that was missing was another important one. So I entered the world of online dating, not hoping, but with the hope that I would find Mr. Right. To my great surprise, I saw him for three days patiently waiting for Mr. The practice is magic. That is a miracle. Very good- even if not very accurate. Nearly three months into the relationship, I was seriously injured “there.” These sharp, reddish, irritated, dark brown chickens look like they are black. They were in pain. It felt like I was moving. It hurt my butt. I knew I was in trouble.

Read More: Are You Making These Mistakes on Your Herpes Dating Profile

Dispute:

Unexpectedly, I asked for an appointment with my host. What happened to me? Where did these places come from? If I had known, I would have known what to do now. But like me, I thought I was smart, responsible, and careful. The idea that I have an STD has not yet passed me by. So when the doctor said I had genital herpes, I almost fell out of my chair. Herpes? Genital herpes? How on earth do I have herpes? I am tall, healthy, and hateful to say bad things to Mr. Right about his health the first time he considered immorality without a hat. I refused until he agreed up and down, back and forth with the progress he had made.

And now I am here, sitting in a soft cloth robe on a table covered with a rough sheet facing the symptom of genital herpes. What did I think? For starters, murder. I wanted to kill Right. He lied to me about his STD. He turned me from a real woman into a dirty thing that was broken at night. He goes to pay.

Communication:

I planned it in my head. I called him and asked him to come to my house to calm down. Then I like to play while he walks in, so he doesn't know. Then I started to attack. What happened was when I got him on the phone I kept crying. I loved this guy. I was angry with him, yes, but I still needed his support. I was so hard at firing, and I couldn't control all the sentences. He was walking to my seat before I hung up the phone.

The assassination attempt, I thought, did not happen. However, he listened carefully and thoughtfully to me talking about my day in the doctor's office. She was shocked, saddened, saddened when I accused her of lying to me, having a nasty STD, of wanting to have sex without a helmet when she knew what was going to happen. He was just calm. Why was he not ashamed? Why was he not ashamed? Why did he just sit there comforting me with the sudden look on his face instead of running up the hills? Didn't he know we were gone? Didn't he know I was about to kill him?

Security:

I never thought it was possible to get an STD, and one that could not be cured if you followed the rules and asked all the right questions. I know I am not saying that standard- a rugged carrier for genital herpes is very rare. And then I ended up enjoying the Right, the white dress, the picket fences and all that stuff, and the correct fix. I will do everything again if I have the chance.

Just know that it is essential to be safe in the world today. Ask your partner about your history of sex and sexual health. If possible, ask your partner to have an STD test. It will be a conversation. It will be a problem. But if it means you can avoid a bad contract with an STD, it is costly. If the guy wears a hat because you asked him his question, he won't have a substance in the long run. And if you have an STD and are looking for love, make sure you have the right person so you can be safe.

Read More: Mistakes I Made While Disclosing My Herpes Status

 

Login

Welcome to WriteUpCafe Community

Join our community to engage with fellow bloggers and increase the visibility of your blog.
Join WriteUpCafe