Being lonely does not necessarily mean you are alone. There are people who live with a partner or large family who know how it is to be feeling this simply because there is no closeness with them, no bond, nothing emotional and intense or caring. Sometimes this can feel worse than actually being on your own because you cannot do what you want when you want. At least someone who lives alone can sit and cry if they feel awful, ring someone for some support, go for a refreshing walk or lose themselves in a book without having the constant attention of others. Being lonely is hard, coping with being lonely is not needed if you put your mind to curing the problem. You may be able to do this fully or opartly but anything is better than nothing.
You need to learn how to be coping whilst you also make sure that you rectify the situation.Take your feelings seriously. Human contact is crucial. Don't try to tell yourself it's not important to have friends. If you want to be in love but feel it is impossible to find a partner do not give up and do not tell yourself that you should not want this. If your feelings of being alone are caused by something within YOU where even if you are married with a huge family and friends the feeling is still there. This means that it is not your life or other people that are to blame and you can sort this out by seeing a competent therapist who takes you in hand.
For advice on this you can go to a professional such as
send an agony aunt letter to a top advice columnist or
go see a spiritual clairvoyant and psychic reader
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Our social needs are more important than our intellectual and creative needs. If you let your social life end when you quit school then it will not be long before you won't care much about learning and exploring the world. You'll want to get right back to your locker, because Tatiana will be rummaging in her locker next to you. Each of us has to feel a sense of belonging and recognition before we can set out to fulfill “higher” needs such as intellectual achievement. Being loved by someone matters more than passing an examination or being promoted at work.Coping with being lonely is not necessary if you sort out your social life. An agony aunt will know that it is not easy to achieve but they are able to achieve. A lot of achievers use computers to try to help with their loneliness. They realise that they have to think outside the box and get comfort from wherever they can. A good agony aunt will know all of the sites and places which are best for them and can advise them on the best places to go.
