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Find Your Right One by Marriage Matching

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Finding a suitable life partner is a matter of luck! Astrology helps you find the right life partner who complements you as a person. We commonly see cases of separation, fights, clashes, verbal disharmony, family discord, and divorces these days. Astrology may help avoid such miserable conditions by guiding whether a person is suitable for you as a life partner. By matching two people's personalities and mental attributes, an astrologer suggests a probable happy married life ahead. The planets influence us all in the sky, and these significantly impact our lives borne by their associated significations. Matchmaking is the most hyped and widely trusted process of Vedic astrology where the kundlis of both the boy and girl are used to determine whether they make for a successful and happy couple. The Kundli matching is the most effective astrological technique to ensure happiness in any marriage by bringing the most compatible couple together.   

What is Kundli matching?

Kundli matching means matching the individual kundlis of prospective bride and groom to determine how compatible they are as a couple. The most popular astrological method of marriage matching is a score-based system. The scores or points are called gunas in Vedic astrology. The total points or gunas in a match-making process is 36. The couple has to score as maximum as possible out of 36 points. Kundli matching involves checking every aspect of the kundli to ensure a happy marriage. All kinds of astrological doshas like mangal dosha, Agarak dosha, nadi dosha, bhakut dosha, kemdrum yoga, etc., are considered to determine how fortunate your life partner would be for you. Whenever two people live together, they affect each other with their planetary influences. Thus, it is very important to find a partner who balances the negative traits of your kundli. Kundli matching is basically a gun Milan but with a deeper viewpoint as applied by only a few learned astrologers. 

How many points are good for marriage?

A match scoring more than 18 points is considered a good match for marriage, while points below 18 are not recommended for marriage. Scoring exact 18 points is an average match. For obtaining scores, the birth charts are checked under 8 heads called kootas in astrology. Thus the matching is called ashtkoota milan. The kootas are varna, vashya, tara, yoni, grah, gan, bhakut and nadi. The couple is tested under these 8 heads and score for each head is pre fixed under astrological texts. The couple with 18+ gunas is allowed to tie the knot.

But, merely matching ashtkoota Milan through astrological software online doesn’t suffice the purpose of finding the best match for marriage. Many peculiarities may cause cancellations of any dosha otherwise shown through software. An astrological consultation may indicate whether a match is fruitful or not. There are several instances where couples are allowed to marry despite of very low ashtkoota Milan score, whereas an extremely good score has been denied marriage. So, birth chart matching can be deceptive if not followed by professional help. A decision to marry a person should not be taken based on a general score, as there might be serious additions or subtractions. Thus, an astrologer who thoroughly understands kundli matching process and its repercussions should be contacted.

Does horoscope matching help to find the right partner?

Yes! Horoscope matching involves deep analysis of the birth charts of both the boy and the girl. The astrologer checks the mental and physical personality traits of each of them. When they share mental and physical harmony, their relationship will turn out to be loving and strong. Under horoscope matching, their financial and sexual compatibility is also ascertained to avoid ego and dissatisfaction issues later. These are the two major causes for bitterness in married relations. The planets have their natural significations. Some are soft, and some are harsh, some are calm while some are excessively energetic, some are slow while others are very fast, and so on. There can never be a match between two opposite personality traits. Astrology strives to find people sharing common and complementing traits to avoid later frictions.

Progeny is yet another highly significant factor to consider when astrologers check marriage compatibility for a couple. Likely, problems or obstacles in childbirth are also indicated in the matching of kundli. When all important points required to maintain a healthy relationship are considered carefully, there left no space for any kind of mistakes.

The timing of marriage is equally important. It is important to understand that Astrology doesn’t work in isolation. All factors like marriage yoga, suitable dasha, and transit of planets work hand-in-glove to ensure a prosperous married relationship. Even if everything is good under kundli Milan and the astrologer is convinced about the promise of a healthy and happy marriage, the dasha and transit of planets also have to be checked. If any of the partners is undergoing sadesati, dhaiyya or other bad periods in janam kundli, it is better to avoid or postpone the decision as negative implications may follow. Similarly, any bad dasha may cause interruptions and bitterness in married relations. Any negative period, especially in the initial phase of a marriage, may cause too much disturbance, misunderstandings, clashes, and arguments. This may sometimes lead to divorce or separation. 

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Thus, it is almost mandatory to go for an astrological consultation before taking the most important decision of your life i.e. marriage. Merely showing trust in kundli matching done through free software doesn’t serve the true purpose and pushes you towards a darker future ahead. Stay sure, stay aware with Astrology always! 

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