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Once you've created a list of the manners you wish to teach your child, you can begin teaching them. The important thing is to remember that good manners are simply the behaviors you want your child to show. Before teaching your kids good manners you need to understand some Parenting Tips.

 

Give clear instructions

 

To adults, it may seem clear that when we speak to someone, we should look them in the eye and pay close attention to what we are saying. We almost all agree that it's disgusting to chew with our mouths open or put our feet up at the dinner table. Kids, yet, could not be aware of or realize this without being directly instructed. Simply inform them of your expectations rather than shame or embarrassment them. It also helps to briefly explain the importance of particular manners.

 

Maintain expectations Age-Appropriate

 

Adjust your expectations based on the age and developmental stage of your child. You can work on a toddler's patience, but an older child might be expected to wait their turn for much longer. A toddler might be able to sit politely for just a few minutes at a time. For children in the elementary grades, try to see mistakes as teaching moments. Giving your child too much to learn all at once runs the risk of overwhelming them. Also, it's beneficial to continually evaluate earlier abilities to make sure your child is remembering ways to use them and to teach new manners they might be prepared to develop.

 

Be a Role Model

 

The good news is that by acting nicely, you've probably already set the foundation for it. Being an example by modeling the behaviors you are teaching your children is the most effective way to mold and control their behavior and teach them new abilities. Your child is going to copy your behavior if they observe you treating people with respect, being considerate, obeying the law, and using other good manners. Keep in mind that being polite also works for times when we are irritated. 

 

Use Appreciation

 

Your kid wants to win your favor. The more praise they receive for using their manners, the more probable it is that they will stay. So reward your youngster whenever you see them showing their ideal behaviors. Even if they didn't get it quite right, you may still praise them for trying. These abilities can take some time to develop and become second nature. Simply observing that they are making an effort can encourage them.

 

Practice in New Environments

 

Giving your child lots of opportunities to practice these social skills is the best method for helping in developing good manners. Children can practice these behaviors in a safe environment by role-playing. You can make up different situations with your kid and switch off the parts you both take. When you're entering a new situation, as when your child starts school and will be meeting a lot of new people, it can be a useful strategy.

 

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