Desperate times call for desperate measures, right? Wrong. It is easy to get carried away by the innumerable proposals on matrimonial websites. A lot of people have regretted not doing enough background checks before going into toxic marriages. So, save yourself potential tragedies and look for these signs before agreeing to marry anyone on the internet.
Scrutinize well- Go through the personal and professional details carefully. Fraudsters usually do not put a lot of thought into these since they have multiple accounts to handle. Having no profile picture is a big red flag. Go through the bio, it will likely be something unoriginal. The photos might seem too commonplace. Well, they might just be Google downloads. Also, if the person is avoiding video calls, it might be to hide his true self. So beware!
Never involves the family- Take any sob story with a pinch of salt. In India, marriages are a family affair. So if you repeatedly feel the candidate is ignoring discussion with parents, proceed with extreme caution.
Privacy breach-If you get questions about your past relationships or your sex life even before formal introduction, pack your bags and run! They have NO intention of marrying you.
Zero social media presence- If you cannot find the concerned person anywhere on Facebook, Instagram etc chances are you might be dealing with a fraudster. Learn to know the difference between a private person and a person with zero digital footprints. Step back if this happens.
Financial requests- Again stay wary of sob stories like parents passing away or big hospital fees that need to be paid immediately. A genuine person who does not know you that well will NEVER ask you for money. They would rather ask for help from family and friends. These are usually fabricated to dupe you of your money and you are unlikely to hear from them again. So, NEVER give in to any money requests.
Observe phone habits- Keep a track of their response pattern. No video calls, getting surprised/annoyed when you suddenly call and taking too much time to respond to texts are tell-tale signs that they are probably busy duping someone else. Why would a person be unhappy if you call them, especially if the person is interested in you?
Take it slow- Relationships bloom slowly. So, be on your guard if the person keeps coaxing you to meet at some private place. Chances are they have ulterior motives which include sexual gratification. Don't make any rash decisions and never make any plans to meet without informing your parents.
Ask Questions- Ask questions whenever in doubt. This is about your whole life so you have the right to transparency. Also, genuine people who are interested in you will naturally ask a lot of questions too because like you, they are anxious too. Lack of questions and inquiries should be a major red flag. Never shy away from pre-matrimonial investigations including background checks. Any top detective agency in Delhi will help you with these investigations if you are not feeling confident about them.
Despite our best efforts, tragedies do happen and people get stuck in a cycle of cheating and fraud. Snoopers India is the top private detective agency in Delhi specialising in the pre matrimonial investigation. We have branches in various cities across India. Our team consists of well-qualified professionals dedicated to unfolding hidden facts if any. Also, we believe in affordable service so you can hire us by paying a nominal service fee. Secure your future with us!
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