After a break-up, communicating with your former partner can be complicated. Others may have ended things peacefully until it comes a time to discuss the sharing of property involved.
Being a family lawyer, I come across different cases and circumstances; however, I always stick to giving the same tips for navigating a family law property settlement.
Engage an experienced family lawyer for advice and guidance
Many families tend to avoid this critical aspect of hiring a family lawyer. The costs that come with hiring a high-end lawyer and the amount of time spent before the courts can settle any family law property disputes are among the things that discourage people. However, with the proper guidance from an experienced lawyer, your case can be resolved quickly without spending much money. The process is usually smooth and less problematic when the parties engage an experienced family lawyer. Also, agreeing on the right lawyer to settle for in case there are more options will help both of you to come to a good ending since both parties will be convinced that the experienced lawyer will handle the matter amicably.
Avoid taking advice from family, social media or friends regarding legal cases such as family law property settlement if you require appropriate assistance.
Gather enough information about the lawyer you intend to engage
Before speaking to any lawyer, gathering relevant information regarding professionalism helps you to understand the kind of person you will be dealing with. Also, find out everything about your settlement. This includes assets you may own together, such as cars, savings, property, shares, furniture, etc. If there is a family business, its value should be featured in the discussion.
Also, you need to have the right picture during the discussions if there are debts or liabilities such as mortgage or personal loans. Detailed information makes it easier for the lawyer to determine the best possible outcomes and strategies.
Maintain gentleness, pragmatism and Determination
Being gentle and collected remains one of the best advice I always give to family law property settlement clients who approach me for assistance. If you need the process to run smoothly, ensure that emotions do not control you. It can be difficult, especially when you know you will no longer be together, but you can see the bigger picture if you remain calm. You can also avoid making rush decisions and complicating the issue by maintaining pragmatism and gentleness. It also shows that both parties are ready to settle things peacefully.
