For years, I believed that being outgoing was something you were either born with or not. It’s a trait reserved for the naturally energetic people, the ones who are loud and giggle at every little thing. Introverts are either termed as rude or boring. So, I decided to find out how to become an extrovert. Now, I have something called “selective extrovertism” (made-up term, of course).
It is a part of self-discovery.
In the right setting and with the right people, I can be the life of the party. I will talk to strangers. I will make bold jokes. I will laugh too loudly and pretend I’ve always been this effortless. But trust me, just like you, even I hate crowded rooms, loud music, and small talk. If you’re like me and want to know how to become an extrovert from an introvert, read along and find out, one awkward “hello” at a time.
Start where you feel safe
Diving headfirst into a room full of strangers isn’t going to help you. So, start socializing where you feel safest. You can try to build a deeper connection with your friends, trusted colleagues, and family members because when you are surrounded by the people who love you, the fear of being judged is less. Hence, you end up feeling more confident and secure.
Host parties and invite your circle. Try to initiate conversations on your own, share your opinions, and be more expressive. Over time, what once felt like a far-fetched dream of becoming an extrovert will soon become a reality.
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