Lube may not be a topic you learned about in sex ed, and that's OK! Even if you know the basics of using lube, you could be missing out on its added benefits. As sexologist Jess O’Reilly Ph.D. states, “there’s really no wrong way to use lube.” Focus on your own pleasure and experiment with the amount you use. During penetration, more lube is usually better, but for non-penetrative sex, you might find a few drops are enough.
With such a wealth of lubricants available in market, it can be difficult to decide which one to purchase.
Differing in ways like texture, scent, and longevity, not all lubricants are made for the same purpose. Consider your individual preferences and requirements when selecting a lubricant to determine the best one for you. To assist you in this decision, here's a summary of the available options:
- Water-based lubricants are typically the most popular kind. As Dr. Shepherd explains, they are less sticky than oil-based or silicone lubes, but may not last as long. This is fine for short encounters, but if you're expecting a lengthy session, you may need to reapply. Fortunately, these lubes are versatile and can be used with most sex toys and condoms.
- Oil-based lubricants are renowned for their exceptional staying power. It is important to note however, that the oil may leave a residue in the rectum or vagina, which can result in a heightened risk of urinary or vaginal infections. This is not a universal experience; some individuals are able to use oil-based lubricants without issue. Yet, caution must be taken when using oil-based lubricants with latex condoms as the oil can break down the latex. To quote Dr. Shepherd, “[If] you're using any type of latex product, you can't use an oil-based lubricant because that will disintegrate the latex.”
- Silicone lubes boast longer longevity than many other lubricants, however, they may be more difficult to remove. Additionally, they are not compatible with any silicone-based sex toys, as the material may be damaged, according to Dr. Shepherd.
- Natural lubricants are considered to typically contain fewer ingredients, such as homemade and store-bought components, and have fewer potential irritants than products with synthetic additives. According to Dr. Shepherd, this can make such lubes particularly suitable for people with sensitive skin. The exact definition of what's classified as natural is open to debate, however.
These are the most effective, innovative approaches to utilizing lube.
There are numerous choices that can elevate one's lubricant experience beyond simply applying some and assuming the job is done. Try these alternatives to maximize your lube experience.
Use it for a professional hand massage.
Emphasizes how important lubrication is for effective handjobs. To maximize the experience, try to apply a few drops of lubricant onto either your hands or your partner's penis before beginning. O'Reilly affirms that the flexibility and control of your hands allows you to recreate almost any oral sensation with the addition of lubricant. To maximize this effect, O'Reilly suggests intertwining your lubed-up fingers before commencing.
Take your partner's pleasure to the next level.
We provides a useful tip for sex: Make an “I swear” motion, then slowly insert two lubed-up fingers into the vagina, gently rotating them. You can also use your thumb to stimulate your partner's clitoris simultaneously.
Spread them on your sex doll torso.
There are several ways to utilize sex doll torso. You can apply a lubricated bullet BBW sex doll over the skin or around the genital area. Additionally, use a vibrator with lubricant during a partner's oral or penetrative sex on the perineum.
Test it in the shower for optimal use.
Adding a few drops of lubricant to the base of your vagina or toys before bathing is recommended. This is to help combat the undesired consequence of water potentially washing away your natural lubrication and causing friction that could be uncomfortable.
Maximize convenience of anal stimulation.
Anal penetration can be made more comfortable with lube, possibly even essential, according to O’Reilly. She suggests using silicone lube for all forms of anal penetration, including fingers, toys, strap-ons, penises, and anal beads. Further, lube may be beneficial for rimming your partner.
Incorporate Lube for more lubrication during intercourse.
Lubricant is often employed as an aid to enhance sexual pleasure and reduce friction. One can apply lube directly to the vulva with their fingers, or, for immediate results, can have their partner apply it using their lips.
