The Ones We Love Never Truly Die. They're Right Here.
One of the most heartbreaking events that can occur in anyone’s life is losing a loved one. Whether it’s a parent or spouse, child or aunt, the hurt almost never goes away. Time heals all wounds they say.
As the days go by, you begin to feel a little better. It’s however important that you keep the memory of your loved one with you, even as you journey through life. Find out how in this article.
Host a Party in Their Honor
A birthday, anniversary, or Mother's Day is a good time to invite a group of friends over for dinner to remember your loved one. You could hold it at the person's favorite restaurant or make a menu of foods that your loved one would have liked. Then, you could share memories and get support from your friends.
Create a Keepsake
Lots of times when a loved one dies, we are left with not only their memories but also their clothes. It can be hard to give these things away because they are a tangible way to remember that person. You could turn their favorite shirts or other clothes into napkins, pillows, or patchwork quilts that you can use around the house. — there are a lot of services now that deal with this. Today, there are companies that can turn old clothes into everything from stuffed animals to blankets and bears.
Converse with Them
Our loved ones leave a mark in our minds. So, when we close our eyes, we can almost hear their voice, which is full of meaning and life. Because we know our family and friends so well, we can figure out how we should act in certain situations. So, why not as your loved one?
Ask your loved one what they think you should do the next time you have a tough decision to make. They might be unable to speak to you directly, but the pattern they have left in your mind will give you valuable information and help you make a good choice.
Visit Places You Both Considered Special
If you and your loved one used to go to certain places you both liked, by all means, keep going. Was there a coffee shop or book store that you liked? Perhaps you have a favorite vacation spot or state park in mind. Remember your loved one as you go to these places and have fun. You could even write them a letter each time you visit, telling them about a time you visited together or telling them how much you miss them.
Make Their Favorite Dishes
One of the best ways to connect with someone is through food. It is also a great way to keep their memory alive. Indulging in the same foods that your loved one liked is a powerful way to connect with them and talk about them with your family and friends. It doesn't matter if you learn how to make their favorite holiday recipe or just eat their favorite candy once in a while, just make sure you’re eating something that meant a lot to your loved one.
Immerse Yourself in Their Clothes
Wrap yourself up in a piece of your loved one's clothes. If your loved one died a few months ago, you might be able to find clothes that smell like them. If you look at sweatshirts, blankets, or robes, you might see it. It might make you think of your loved one's arms around you if you wrap those things around you. You might want to keep the smell of those special things around as long as you can. Following a death, you may find comfort in the smells of your loved one's perfume or cologne.
Listen to Their Favorite Songs
It’s mind-blowing how the first few lines of a song can bring you back to a certain time and place. When you listen to the music that makes you think of your loved one, it will take you back to that time.
The walk may be hard to bear, but opening up your memories will help you remember things about your loved one that you may not have been able to remember before. So, you might want to make a playlist of your loved one’s favorite songs and share it with them. Music that makes your family think of their loved ones might be fun for them to listen to.
