Cancer and Leo are the only zodiac signs ruled by celestial bodies which are not planets in the strict sense – the Sun and the Moon. In astrology, they are like a husband and a wife. They are the king and queen of the zodiac.
Their sexual life has a lot to do with the depth of their emotions. Both are very emotional in their own way and may express their love in different ways. Being a Fire sign, Leo is more passionate, and this could intimidate Cancer, who is more romantic, tender, and sensitive. Leo finds it difficult to play the role of the tender lover. Though these two signs don’t intend to hurt each other, they may end up doing so because of their basic natures. But they may have a satisfying sexual relationship, though it may not be very exciting on the whole. Leo has a flamboyant personality and wants to hog everyone’s attention. But Cancer is shy and gets irritated by people who show off. Cancer and Leo also signify the subconscious and conscious mind. While one has a passive approach to life, the other has an active approach. Hence, they could learn a lot from each other.
Emotions
Both signs signify love, even though it may have a different nuance. Cancer, a Water sign, is very nurturing and maternal. Their love is very deep and tender. But Leo, a Fire sign, is more into fun and sex. They do have a big heart, as Leo embodies our inner child, and are very loyal to their loved ones. Leo is more expressive than Cancer, so if they are happy or sad about something, Cancer will surely hear about it. On the other hand, Cancer is an introvert and prone to mood swings. When deeply hurt, they will retreat into a shell and refuse to communicate. This could send Leo into a rage and eventually out the door.
Intimacy
In bed, it will be Leo’s lot to take the lead and help Cancer to explore their bodies and sexuality. But the sex will be one-sided if Cancer doesn't feel an emotional connection. Cancer wants to please their partner, but they will become resentful if their feelings are not reciprocated. It helps that both are romantic. They are also generous lovers. Leo brings passion to the bedroom, encouraging Cancer to shed their inhibitions. Cancer knows how to pamper Leo.
Values
They are not likely to value the same things. But it may take them a long time to realize this fact. Cancer cares about family, safety, and security. Leo values their image most of all and their status in society. They want to be noticed, acknowledged, and appreciated. Home and family are important, too, but only after Leo’s own needs. However, both are true romantics, and love and loyalty matter a lot to them. Both will always stand by their loved ones.
Shared Activities
Cancer will be happy to spend time at home with their family, but Leo is a sociable sign and likes to party. Leos tend to have a large friends circle, while Cancer may have a few close friends. In fact, so different are their personalities that an enduring relationship seems like a tall order. At home, it will be Cancer who does all the heavy lifting like cooking, cleaning, and caring for kids. Leo will be happy to laze about and let Cancer serve them with devotion. When Cancer wants to visit their grandparents or close friends since school days or go to the movies followed by a candlelight dinner, Leo will want to go to the most happening party at a nightclub. They will also expect their partner to turn everyone’s heads and scorch the dance floor with them. But Cancer does not enjoy being the center of attention. The result is that neither partner will be happy, as their social needs won’t be met.
Communication
Leo is not the type to remain silent about anything and, in fact, is quite vocal. They tend to be loud and boisterous, unlike the gentle and soft-spoken Cancer. But Cancer, ruled by the Moon, has a moody temperament. Like their symbol, the Crab, they will sulk inside their shell if they feel hurt or misunderstood by Leo. Leo lacks the patience to deal with Cancer’s moods, and this could lead to some gaps in communication between them. Cancer needs to verbalize their feelings, and Leo needs to be more sensitive to make their communication smooth.
Trust
Leo is domineering and possessive by nature and can be very protective of their partner. This is likely to create problems as Cancer may feel that Leo lacks trust in them. Unless both feel secure in their love for each other, they might have an emotional roller-coaster ride ahead. Though Cancer seems to be docile and passive, they can be quietly controlling and are not beyond manipulating Leo to get their own way. Of the two, Leo is the one who is likely to stray. Cancer will not cheat as a rule unless it is an act of revenge.
Summary
Cancer and Leo may hit it off initially. But as the days pass, their differences may come to the fore and confront them with uncomfortable questions about the strength and longevity of their relationship. Despite being committed to their relationship, and filling a void in each other’s lives, these two may slowly drift apart as they understand that their needs are not the same. Still, they will share a lot of love and many wonderful moments of togetherness before they decide to go their separate ways. And even after they break up, they will continue to look out for each other.
On a scale of 1-10, the marriage compatibility between Cancer and Leo is 6.
