The exchange of partners – swinging – is an increasingly widespread sexual practice among many people. Those who have gone abroad now practice it without fearing the prejudices of those around them. In all countries, members of swinging clubs are incredibly discreet. Some men are married, even if they know and are a part of the swinger community in their early youth, being fascinated by the idea of exchanging sexual partners. A person who has such a lifestyle has to have an open mind and have a partner in the swing sense with whom he could have sex with other couples.
All over the place, some couples are part of the communities of those who not only accept but are also happy to exchange partners. Swinging can also be used as a job, not only as a way of having fun. This current is defined as “an alternative lifestyle, based on the creation of friendships, generally between couples, to carry out recreational activities that can end with sex in various forms between two or more couples”. In most Western countries, there are many swingers clubs with proper documents, where those who want to spice up their sex life go to have sex with other partners.
You Can Be a Professional Swinger
Swinging is part of who people are. It is a matter of habit; before you know it, you get used to such a life. The members of SwingTowns are generally from high society and financially influential people, most of them having lucrative jobs. Some people know how to live, transferring their success to their sexual life as well. Couples that have been married for many years can and do work as swingers in clubs specially created for people with such preferences. They are regular people who share a passion for swinging, a passion they extended to a professional level.
Many couples choose to work in this field because their dream is to collect enough money to open a similar club sometime in the future, which will surely be successful. Such a club where people who want to work is an exclusive and select one, and its members can only enter with a card. It's a place where couples meet in an intimate setting to get to know each other, and what happens after that depends only on them. Nobody pays for sex because it's free.
The Swinger Community Is About Open-Minded People
Some people like having sex with women and with men in front of their partners, but also vice versa, and all this happens without prejudice. That is also an opportunity to make some beautiful friends through the job. People from the swinger community often meet these new friends outside the club. They organize outings; they go to discos together. They got to know each other very well, forming a real community. Many believe that it is contrary to the teachings of the Bible, but everyone decides for himself, depending on what he has to gain or lose.
Swingers are a closed community where entry is mostly by referral. Within the community, partner exchange is considered normal. Of course, specific rules are imposed in their case as well. For example, on the website of a club, the partners of a couple say very clearly what type of sex they practice or what preferences they have regarding potential partners. No question of infidelity is in order because you don't cheat on your partner like others do. Practically, you offer the woman next to you the opportunity to learn about other options.
Swingers Are Extremely Discreet
Like secret societies, swinging clubs do not accept advertising. Not at all. However, they are present on the Internet, and access is made through a couple who recommends another person. Meetings of the swinger community occur in previously established places, and access is based on passwords. Single men are tough to accept, perhaps also because of the vast number of those who want to live such experiences. Within couples, most often, men are heterosexual, while women are bisexual. The presentation of couples on the Internet also takes place under the shelter of anonymity given by a pseudonym.
The couples introduce themselves – age, weight, height, hair color, eye color – and describe their sexual preferences as a set of rules – what they do and what they are not willing to try. Those who prefer closed swinging do not want to see their partner while having sex with someone else; those who opt for open swinging want to assist while their partner has sex with another person, and those who only want soft swinging change their partners only for sexual games, returning as a couple to consume the sexual act.
Those who want to meet new exchange partners first chat on Messenger, then get to know each other face to face to see if they feel attracted to them. Connoisseurs claim that this is quite difficult because the spark must appear between the men and women of the two couples at the same time. The most exciting events in the life of a swingers club are the parties, which have different themes. Each couple already a member can bring to the party, which can last three days and three nights, one guest each, woman or man.
Experience New Things
Swingers are a group of adults who have chosen to explore various aspects of open and non-monogamous relationships. This community is based on trust, communication, and consent and can provide an alternative life experience for those who share these values. If you're curious or want to know more about swingers, remember that:
- Consent is critical – Swingers emphasize the consent of all parties involved. No activity should take place without the explicit and enthusiastic consent of all.
- Communication is vital – Open and honest communication is essential in the swinger community. Honest discussions about desires, boundaries, and expectations are the order of the day.
- Rules Vary in the swinger community – there is no “one size fits all” rule regarding swingers. Each couple or group has its own rules and limitations, so ensure you understand and follow them when entering a swinger interaction.
Swingers appreciate discretion and respect for their privacy. Never reveal details or identities without the express permission of those involved. They respect others' decisions and choices regarding their lifestyle. Judgment and criticism are discouraged. The swinger lifestyle is only for some. Knowing your limits and deciding if this type of relationship is right for you is essential.
